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The Proper Care and Feeding of Marriage

The Proper Care and Feeding of Marriage

The bestselling author (The Proper Care and Feeding of Husbands), columnist and talk show host does not deviate from her strong belief that women are largely responsible for happy marital unions, which should be their first priority. For Schlessinger, “feminism robbed women of their essence and their ability to find pure joy and happiness,” but the fair sex can regain that by promoting a traditional relationship with their husbands. Many of Schlessinger’s golden rules recall suggestions from previous books: avoid interfaith marriage, stay together for the sake of the children and never say no to a husband who wants sex. Never insist that a man wash his own dishes, either; both women and men should respect the division of labor and a woman’s status as homemaker. Although Schlessinger acknowledges that men have a responsibility to communicate and recommends that they express gratitude to their wives for domestic attentions, she clearly delineates a successful marriage as one between a male financial provider and a female emotional caregiver. She includes a digression on the differences between the sexes and the masculine/feminine polarity. Though this latest guide will confirm Dr. Laura’s retrograde views for many, devotees will continue to look to her for answers. (Jan.)
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How to Win Friends and Influence People With easy click Table of Contents

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This grandfather of all people-skills books was first published in 1937. It was an overnight hit, eventually selling 15 million copies. How to Win Friends and Influence People is just as useful today as it was when it was first published, because Dale Carnegie had an understanding of human nature that will never be outdated. Financial success, Carnegie believed, is due 15 percent to professional knowledge and 85 percent to “the ability to express ideas, to assume leadership, and to arouse enthusiasm among people.” He teaches these skills through underlying principles of dealing with people so that they feel important and appreciated. He also emphasizes fundamental techniques for handling people without making them feel manipulated. Carnegie says you can make someone want to do what you want them to by seeing the situation from the other person’s point of view and “arousing in the other person an eager want.” You learn how to make people like you, win people over to your way of thinking, and change people without causing offense or arousing resentment. For instance, “let the other person feel that the idea is his or hers,” and “talk about your own mistakes before criticizing the other person.” Carnegie illustrates his points with anecdotes of historical figures, leaders of the business world, and everyday folks. –Joan Price

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5 Stars The Foundation of a Sales Career
I took the Dale Carnegie course when I was just beginning a career in sales and this book was included. It was a transformational experience. The book provides a foundation for understanding what affects others’ perception of you, and how you can use that understanding to your advantage in your career. It’s not a manipulative mindset, but rather a way of seeing things from the other person’s perspective.

While I recommend this product in the context of sales, it’s really a great way to approach people interaction in general and a blueprint for happier living. The specific examples have stayed with me 15 years later and serve as a constant reminder. I was so pleased with the results of the book and the course that I later returned and volunteered as a graduate assistant for the course. A great start for building a sales library.Selling the Fuzzy Widget: Secrets of Selling Professional Services

5 Stars Part of my Wharton Education
I first read this book while an undergrad at Wharton, and as I explain in “Free New Power,” this was part of the foundation for all the success I’ve achieved in my life.

This is a book that I have read and re-read many times since college. It is always fun to go back and read the homey stories and anecdotes that explain the way to win friends and influence people.

Everyone should read this book. And reread it.

5 Stars Excellent book - Use in personal life and business life
Also read book by Keith Ferrazi (Never eat alone) and Marshall Goldsmith (What got you here won’t get you there).Excellent books. ROI on this purchase is unmeasurable.

5 Stars Must Read for Everyone
After being on my must read list for years, I finally picked up this book. I’m glad I did. Although this book was first published over seventy years ago, the advice and principles remain just as relevant today. Carnegie was a visionary and a people person who understood that making other people feel important and appreciated should be a priority for anyone who wanted to win friends or influence people. The principles in this book are not groundbreaking (although they may have been at the time), but are rather simple reminders of how any leader, professional, friend or person should act. Wouldn’t it be great if we all lived in a world where Carnegie’s principles were incorporated into everyone’s daily life. This is a must read for everyone.

4 Stars A personal development must have
I respect Mr. Carnegie tremendously. This book is a classic. Provides a great foundation for developing people skills and positive influence. The techniques are insightful and are very practical. This book will motivate you. Provides great tips for dealing with people, such as smiling and staying away from criticism. This book will really help with your speaking skills. Highly recommend reading for any business owner or entrepreneur.

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